(They want to write first.) The proportion of older and unattractive ladies to younger females who decided to contact you will be about 10:1. Some guys evaluate their potential on a dating site by the number of lovely ladies who sent them inquiries after the registration… In an ideal world all the hot girls you like would love you back. Normally, if you send 10 female members a “wink” (smile/kiss/EOI), only 2-3 will write back, and 50% of them will say, “Thanks, but no thanks.” And that’s what you should expect! For girls it’s easier to ignore a message than explain “why not”.
That’s basically all her requirements to future Mr. —rather than “They simply desire to immigrate”, then it will be easier for you to separate legitimate dating sites as compared to the ones that only bring you grief. , which you are going to be checking for, start and end.
Also, among the females that contact you first at legitimate places, most will be older and less attractive—they are desperate, because no one is writing to them.