I’m making You Tube videos because I noticed a lot of foreigners are very skeptical when it comes to dating in Japan.It makes me sad that some think it’s impossible and give up before even trying, especially foreign women.As a Japanese man you’re being raised to be the breadwinner, supporting your family. While this traditional thinking is slowly changing, it’s still very present.Quite a few Western women I interviewed complained that their Japanese boyfriend has never time because of work.Well, yes, there seem to be more couples consisting of a foreign man and a Japanese woman than the other way round.Nevertheless, I strongly believe that you can find a Japanese partner regardless of gender, nationality or race and that’s why I’m making videos to encourage foreigners in Japan.
In our culture, we heavily rely on non-verbal communication.
In my opinion, it’s necessary that foreign women become more pro-active. This might be scary at first, especially if you’ve grown up in an environment where it was ok to play the “shy girl”.
But just because a Japanese guy isn’t approaching you actively, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not interested.
Hi, I’m Nobita, a native Japanese working as a Japanese teacher in Japan.
My You Tube channel, “Find Your Love in Japan” is mainly about dating in Japan.
You’ll keep asking yourself : “Does this guy really like me?